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so he does wear hats a lot...</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://selfindulgentdrivel.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/todd161.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Todd16</image:title><image:caption>Ok, not the greatest example...</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://selfindulgentdrivel.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/todd31.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Todd31</image:title><image:caption>...but here he is, in all his hairless glory... and he's still totally crushable.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://selfindulgentdrivel.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/todd18.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Todd18</image:title><image:caption>How's this?  Cute, right?</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://selfindulgentdrivel.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/judelawbald3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>judelawbald3</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://selfindulgentdrivel.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/judelawbald2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>judelawbald2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://selfindulgentdrivel.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/judelawbald1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>judelawbald1</image:title><image:caption>Smouldering and 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